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Reflection....

Afbeelding
Weeks have gone by without writing a post. Guess too much on my mind was the reason and the joy of having Bram at home was part of it too. It felt as a new beginning in a way and there was no need to write. Just enjoying the days spending with him was the main part of my life after all the weeks he wasn't at home. Bram looks much better. The colour of his skin is very good and he returns in a way the way he was. Wicked and naughty and with a sparkle in his eyes. My "old Bram" has returned. It is the Bram I fell in love with almost 28 years ago.Opposite of me in a way but our connection has become so strong over al the years we are together. He now can walk a little stroll into town which he couldn't do for such a long time (the last time I drove him in the wheelchair) and the first time we walked to the little coffee shop I felt so good. So long ago we walked together in town. I feel that now my time of dealing with it all has arrived and next to al the happines th...

Home is where the Heart is....

Afbeelding
Just a quick post... YES , he is coming home tomorrow morning...and we both are so looking forward to it. 8 weeks separation was a long time Just put new sheets on our bed and these wonderful cushion-covers I got as a birthday gift from my dear friend Tiny. She has embroidered this specially for us. I haven't used them till now. This is the perfect moment to start using them... I want to thank everyone who has supported me and Bram over the last 8 weeks to deal with everything that was happening to us and I will keep you updated of course...Love you all!!!

One week to go....

Afbeelding
I got this card from my FB and knitting friend Marjoleine and this represents in a way my dealing with everything happening over the last weeks... Last Monday Bram and myself had a talk with the doctor, physiotherapist and head of the department he stays and we came to the conclusion that on the 1th of November he can go home...So very good news. Of course he needs to have treatments to become stronger, so he will go 2 mornings and 1 afternoon to the Rehab centre for as long as it needs. I think after he gave up the feeling that he really didn't liked it there he became stronger and accepted the fact that it was necessary to stay there for a while and make the most of it. But.. the end of staying there is at the horizon.No more living alone for him in a small room and no more living alone for me in our house..Really looking forward to that! To make this step going well we are doing it step by step. So we made a little trip to a restaurant for coffee, a trip into town to the hair...