Living now -already for a long time- with a husband who gets weaker by the day, makes me think about important aspects of life and our relation. What is We and what is He and Me ? Our relation sofar was about We . For us was -and still is- doing things together something we really like(d). Ofcourse we both had our work during the week, but the weekends belonged to us. Wether that was a visit to a museum or going into town for shopping..etc... Together was the startingpoint. Not that we didn't go to friends for dinner, sure we did, (we both love the active social life), but we just enjoy eachothers company. That is what friends and our nurses see...2 commited men, who care and are responsible for eachother. I am happy that this is so visible and seen by all of them. It makes me realize how important it all has been,and still is. We have encouraged eachother, and have grown together into this. Not as cycling on 1 bicycle, but each on a bicycle going the same way. (Funny,
